Good Golly, It's Molly
Name: Molly Fay
Kids: daughter, age 9; son, age 5; daughter, age 3
Work: host, The Morning Blend on TODAY'S TMJ4
Favorite part of being a mom: The little moments -- that sweet snapshot in time and you know you'll never have that exact same moment again.
Least favorite part about being a mom: Yelling at my kids, knowing how much I'll regret it later.
A great day: Cleaning the basement or organizing my closet -- really!
It's OK to be anxious
By Molly Fay
Friday, Sep 5 2008, 03:26 PM
Yesterday on the show we interviewed Dr Brad Riemann at Rogers Memorial
Hospital about Anxiety and Panic Disorders.
I talked about my own
personal experience with this particular problem and I’ve been so
touched by the response I’ve received from people who saw the show.
I’ve always thought about discussing it on the show, but I was never
sure how it might go over. I heard from a neighbor who was diagnosed
with this disorder back in the ’90s and she had so many nice things to
say — and helpful advice and encouragement. I also got a few emails
from viewers and regular guests.
Dr Riemann even called to say that
since the show he’s heard from people who are now hoping to use his
expertise to help a loved one. Many commended me for my bravery. The
thing is — I didn’t really feel courageous doing the segment; mostly, I
felt relief. It’s kind of nice to have it “out there” for some
reason. It doesn’t seem as bad or embarrassing.
If in any way I was
able to reduce the stigma of disorders like this one, then I am so
pleased. Like one mom said to me, “It’s so common - it shouldn’t be
stigmatized at all!” She’s so right.
One last thing – I’ve learned
something through my struggles and the stories I’ve heard from others. Living each moment, without anxiously worrying about the future (or
things that “might” happen) is where we’re most likely to find
happiness. It’s about taking just one day at a time. It’s
also accepting that we’re not perfect — and getting help if we need
it. Really, it’s okay to be anxious.
My doctor once told me I’d be
anxiety free — when I’m dead! (I say that with a smile).