Good Golly, It's Molly
Name: Molly Fay
Kids: daughter, age 9; son, age 5; daughter, age 3
Work: host, The Morning Blend on TODAY'S TMJ4
Favorite part of being a mom: The little moments -- that sweet snapshot in time and you know you'll never have that exact same moment again.
Least favorite part about being a mom: Yelling at my kids, knowing how much I'll regret it later.
A great day: Cleaning the basement or organizing my closet -- really!
By Molly Fay
Tuesday, Nov 18 2008, 12:17 PM
I was shocked to hear today's Morning Blend guest say that kids today are making better decisions than their parents did when they were teenagers! Could it be true?! What does it say about me that a statement like that would come as such a big surprise? As an example, the author guest said drinking among college freshmen is down about 35% over the past 10 years. She gave other specifics, too. What isn't surprising is that our style of parenting has a lot to do with the choices our kids make -- bad and good. That's a lot of pressure on us parents!
The author wrote a book about parenting in the 21st century. In this age of overscheduling our kids and the internet it's more important than ever for parents to know what our kids our doing, especially when it comes to technology. This guest suggests that we understand text messaging, cell phone usage (her son logged 3,000 texts in just one month!!!) and social network sites like Facebook and My Space. It's a lot harder in today's world to be up on all that stuff.
When I was a kid - my parents would make a call to Susie's house, just to make sure her parents were home for the party and that I would be sleeping over there and not somewhere else. Today we've gotta be so techno-savvy to keep tabs on our kids. It's tough to be a kid in today's world -- but it's also tough to be a parent, wouldn't you agree?
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By Molly Fay
Tuesday, Nov 4 2008, 11:23 AM
November 4th, 2008
Today “Thunder” was on our show. You remember her - she was the wife part of the husband/wife singing duo, Lightning & Thunder. They sang Neil Diamond songs and hit every summer festival in Milwaukee back when they were popular. Lightning died a few years ago, but his story and the couple’s love story is now part of a documentary which will premiere in Milwaukee this Thursday. It’s called “Song Sung Blue”. It’s supposed to be a very bittersweet and sometimes brutal film detailing the couple’s true-life story. It even won a Sundance Film Festival award for best documentary in 2008. Anyway, Thunder was a great guest today, especially because she gave us some gossip at the end of the segment. She piped up and said she wanted to share some “election gossip” as she called it and went on to say that when she was much younger she kissed Sheldon Wasserman! Wasserman, as you know, is running for a state sentate seat. She said they “made out”!!! I would love to know what Wasserman thinks about her comment! I asked if he was a good kisser, but I don’t even remember what she said because I was so shocked by her revealing secret. That’s the kind of stuff that keeps our show FRESH!
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By Molly Fay
Tuesday, Oct 21 2008, 01:27 PM
Have you ever heard of Hollywood Fashion Tape? A helpful person at Faye’s told me about this miracle and it has changed my life (well, almost)! It is the best seven dollars and fifty cents I’ve spent in ages. The most important thing it does for me is prevent gapping blouse fronts. But it does a lot more than that and after reading my blog today, you’ll probably suspect that I’m making a commission from this stuff but I promise you I am not!
As the ad says, “You don’t have to be a fashion diva to use Hollywood Fashion Tape”. Even regular girls like me use it — almost daily. Along with fixing blouses that constantly pop open, It can also prevent fashion disasters like slipping bra straps, falling hems and broken clasps.
So what is this miracle tape, you ask? It’s clear double-stick, “do everything” tape. It’s super easy to use and you don’t have to worry about damaging clothes. You can also use it right on bare skin to keep straps and open necklines in place. It’s way better than a safety pin! The website for this fashion miracle says, “It’s as easy as peel, stick and go”! That’s the truth, too.
I ordered it online by going to www.hollywoodfashiontape.com You can also find it at a few area upscale clothing/intimate apparel stores.
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By Molly Fay
Friday, Oct 3 2008, 01:16 PM
Today we had an 85-year-old man on our show who’s going to be running in Milwaukee’s Lakefront Marathon this Sunday. I’m not sure what’s more impressive — that he’s 85 and running 26.2 miles, probably without stopping or that it’s the 100th time he’s run a marathon. He told me he started running when he was in his 60’s because his company made him. Apparently they started a health campaign in the workplace and they needed someone over the age of 50 to join their training team. Since he was 60, he decided to volunteer. However, no one made him run a marathon. And, no one told him he had to do it 100 times — and keep on doing it well into his 80’s! I ran a marathon about 10 years ago. That was before I had kids and I had time to do all the training involved in running the race. It’s grueling to train for a marathon. I was truly inspired today to meet someone who’s running marathons on such a routine basis. One year he ran something like 16 marathons! While he runs, he says he does a lot of thinking — and even works out problems in his mind. The best part of all is that he’s decided he’ll keep running marathons as long as he’s able. Now that’s perserverence!
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By Molly Fay
Friday, Sep 26 2008, 08:23 AM

I have a confession to make. For at least two years I’ve been
making fun of a good friend of mine who has a big rain barrel in his
backyard. I always wonder what he does with the water he’s collected.
Does he drink it? I also wondered how much rain would have to fall
in order to make his conservation effort worth the price and hassle of
the big ol’ barrel!
I changed my mind when Melinda Meyers, the Plant Doctor, made a house call to The Morning Blend.
She’s a big fan of the rain barrel and she gave us lots of reasons —
good reasons — to have one. What surprised me the most was that a
single, modest rainfall can really add up inside one of these
barrels. As one environmentalist put it, “Rain barrels help moderate
both feast and famine”. The idea is that the collection of water
inside a barrel slows runoff when it storms and it eases the demand we
all place on city water during dry spells. I think that sounds good
and right now I’m really into doing even small things that might help
our environment.
Who knows? Maybe my neighbors will soon notice a big barrel in my backyard, too.
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By Molly Fay
Friday, Sep 26 2008, 08:20 AM
Since sustainability seems to
be one of the hot words today, I decided to keep with our “Going Green”
theme this week and give you a few (borrowed) tips on a sustainable
lifestyle. In essence, these suggestions might just prolong your
life. Sustainability is important for our environment, too, of
course. But, these are for your life. I listed a few favorites below
- enjoy!
Instructions for a Sustainable Lifestyle…
- Eat a lot of brown rice.
- Give more to people than they expect and do it because you want to and like to do it.
- Learn your favorite poem - or a Bible verse — or inspiring quote – inside out.
- When you say "I love you" really mean it.
- When you say you’re sorry, look the person in the eyes.
- Get engaged at least 6 months before you get married.
- Don't judge anyone by their relatives.
- Speak slowly but think fast.
- Remember the biggest love and greatest successes involves the greatest risks.
- Don’t let a small misunderstanding destroy a beautiful friendship.
- Smile when you answer the telephone, whoever has called will be able to hear you smiling.
- Get married to a man who like to converse — when you get older,
your ability to converse becomes more important than anything else.
- Spend a little time alone.
- Believe in God but always lock your car.
- Pray, there’s an incredible power in prayer.
- Remember that to sometimes not getting what you want is sometimes a great blessing.
- Learn all the Rules and break a few.
- Be kind to our planet.
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By Molly Fay
Friday, Sep 5 2008, 03:26 PM
Yesterday on the show we interviewed Dr Brad Riemann at Rogers Memorial
Hospital about Anxiety and Panic Disorders.
I talked about my own
personal experience with this particular problem and I’ve been so
touched by the response I’ve received from people who saw the show.
I’ve always thought about discussing it on the show, but I was never
sure how it might go over. I heard from a neighbor who was diagnosed
with this disorder back in the ’90s and she had so many nice things to
say — and helpful advice and encouragement. I also got a few emails
from viewers and regular guests.
Dr Riemann even called to say that
since the show he’s heard from people who are now hoping to use his
expertise to help a loved one. Many commended me for my bravery. The
thing is — I didn’t really feel courageous doing the segment; mostly, I
felt relief. It’s kind of nice to have it “out there” for some
reason. It doesn’t seem as bad or embarrassing.
If in any way I was
able to reduce the stigma of disorders like this one, then I am so
pleased. Like one mom said to me, “It’s so common - it shouldn’t be
stigmatized at all!” She’s so right.
One last thing – I’ve learned
something through my struggles and the stories I’ve heard from others. Living each moment, without anxiously worrying about the future (or
things that “might” happen) is where we’re most likely to find
happiness. It’s about taking just one day at a time. It’s
also accepting that we’re not perfect — and getting help if we need
it. Really, it’s okay to be anxious.
My doctor once told me I’d be
anxiety free — when I’m dead! (I say that with a smile).
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