Have you ever seen that guy in the grocery store chasing his 3-year old toddler up and down the aisles? Well, "that guy" is me.
Today's
trip to the grocery store started out well enough. Even though Jack
didn't want to sit in the cart, he stayed close to me and we made a fun
little game out of gathering our fruits and veges. But that game ended
as soon as we entered the "numbered" aisles. Jack's interest
immediately turned to discovering all of the numbers hanging above the
aisles. Don't get me wrong, I'm thrilled that Jack has a strong
interest in numbers. I just wish that his eagerness to count didn't
involve an extended stay at the grocery store.
In situations
like this, I don't attempt to fight Jack. I know that forcing him to
comply to my wishes will only cause an embarrassing scene, and lead to
a very unhappy little boy. So, I let Jack finish his numerical journey
through the store, and by the time we reached the final aisle, Jack was
ready to let daddy take control again. Which was great because in order to keep up with Jack's pace, I had to abandon our cart way back in aisle 3.
After
reclaiming our partially-filled cart, Jack was 100% cooperative for the
remainder of the shopping trip. He sat quietly in the cart, and I was
able to collect the rest of our groceries in a very short amount of
time. By giving Jack just a few minutes to satisfy his eagerness to
discover something new, I was able to complete my task in a relatively
efficient manner.
I guess it just shows that with a little compromise, we both will be happy in the end.