The weather was
incredibly beautiful this past Thursday, so it was very easy to get ourselves out of
the house to run a couple of quick errands. First stop was Friends of Nature to pick up some wild bird seed and a couple of bags of horse feed.
Jack
really loves the Friends of Nature store because there are images of
animals featured on just about every piece of merchandise. Each aisle
is thoroughly entertaining for a 2 1/2-year old. I like to let Jack
walk on his own, (as opposed to confining him to a shopping cart),
because he loves to explore the store. The store isn't very large, so
there is little risk of Jack disappearing from my sight. It is
important to keep one eye on him though because at one point today,
Jack tried to eat an ear of field corn that was part of a display in
the squirrel section.
After we purchased our stash of animal goodies from Friends of Nature, we headed up to Target. As soon as we set foot in Target, Jack led me directly to his favorite destination -- the toy department. As I mentioned in a previous post, Jack loves to add to his Thomas the Tank Engine collection. Today's purchase was a little yellow engine named, "Molly".
While
Molly is not one of the major characters in the "Thomas" storyline,
this engine has a very distinctive paint scheme, and is sure to be
Jack's favorite locomotive for a very long time. Or at least until our
next visit to Target.
With Molly now in his possession, I was
guaranteed that Jack would behave like a perfect little toddler for the
remainder of this shopping experience. I don't want to give the
impression that Jack is spoiled, or motivated by material things. My
point is simply that Jack is smart enough to realize that good behavior
can earn rewards. (In this case, the reward came first, but that's a
mere technicality). This is a lesson that I'm more than happy to
instill on my son; when you choose to behave and do the right thing,
(now and throughout life), rewards may follow. On the other hand, if
you choose to misbehave, there are consequences that are not nearly as
rewarding as receiving a fun new toy.
Following my own fatherly advice, I decided that my good behavior of doing laundry today deserved one of my favorite rewards -- an iced vanilla latte from Starbucks. Hey, even big kids need rewards.