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Tales of a Square Peg

Name: Rochelle Fritsch
Kids: daughter, age 5
Works: Fundraiser for IMPACT, a local nonprofit
Favorite thing about being a mom: Telling my daughter stories about Grandma Gee Gee and stuff that happened when I was a little girl, teaching my daughter important life lessons (manners) and watching her apply them
Least favorite thing about being a mom: Teaching my daughter important life lessons (bad choices lead to bad consequences) by being the "Enforcer"
Famous for: Being a karaoke queen and snorting when I laugh

That Not So Familiar Pitter Patter

By Rochelle Fritsch
Friday, Sep 12 2008, 05:00 PM

We're expecting.  This is how I found out about it.

A few weeks ago when GG had gone to bed, my husband and I were chatting when he said "Just so you know (followed by the most pregnant of pauses ever known to man)....I told GG she could have a puppy for her birthday."

Since I didn't want to be forever known as the Wicked Witch who's the killer of puppy dreams, I accepted -- and even embraced -- our expecting status.  So yes, we are expecting: a puppy.  Which to me is pretty much like a baby -- except puppies are weaned and can walk at eight weeks old.

Now, my acceptance of our new family member was based upon two conditions: 1.) that I select the breed; and 2.) that said breed will be small enough to believe that our house is a mansion and that our backyard is a park.  And because GG has a December birthday, and I don't intend to begin potty training while the snow is flying, our new arrival should arrive sooner than later.  Thus, my search for the perfect puppy has begun. 

I grew up with big dogs and don't know a whole lot about the little ones, so researching these little guys or girls is essential -- and the research alone is proving to be an experience in of itself: there's Morkies, Schnorkies, Dorkies, Schnoodles, Doodles, Doxiepoos, Teddy Bears, you name it.  Then there's the research to find breed personalities that mesh with our lifestyle.  For instance, I know that we're all pretty tuckered out by the end of the day. Cocker spaniels (adorable as they are) are genetically disposed to be high energy and would not work well with us.  Alternately, my research and advice from a dog enthusiast points to the Bichon Frise.  Laid back, needing moderate exercise, the Bichon Frise would be a perfect lifestyle match for our family.  Only thing is, Jamie isn't crazy about them.  So it looks like researching and identifying the right match BEFORE the snow flies AND making everyone happy is going to be my new part-time job.

Sometimes I think having another baby -- the kind that learns to walk at two years old on two legs -- would be easier.

Suggestions? Advice? Amusing anecdotes? Just click the comment button below.

Comments

Fatime   

Have you not heard the rule on dogs?  The bigger they are, the better they are with children.  Smaller breeds tend to have an attitude.  You should see our dog sometime.  Lucy is the best of both worlds...she is part Black Lab and part Corgi.  She is only 46 lbs. and is very well behaved.  We got her from the WI Humane Society when she was 7 1/2 months old.  Consequently, she was already potty-trained.  She is 3 1/2 yrs. old now and a wonderful addition to our family.  

Boxers are good family dogs, too.  

Good luck with your search!

September 13, 2008 8:05 AM

Rochelle Fritsch   

Of all of the "rules" about dogs that I've heard, that's a new one to me....but now that I think about it, the big dogs I grew up with were extremely gentle -- with us and with the kids my mom used to babysit.

Definitely gives me some more food for thought.  Thanks Fatime.

September 13, 2008 10:29 AM

Karen Waldkirch   

I second Fatime's opinion! We have a Golden Retriever and except for the shedding, she's absolutely a fabulous dog. Her biggest issue is that she loves people too much. Unlike tiny dogs, she NEVER barks, and was incredibly easy to "potty train." Goldens and labs are wonderful family dogs.

A word of caution: a puppy IS like a baby. Be ready to lose some of your freedom for a while. And, since your daughter is young, you'll be doing most of the work, despite what she promises!

September 13, 2008 3:32 PM

Rochelle Fritsch   

So....another one in favor of the big dogs.  More food for thought, you guys.

Now about promises made:  GG's promises have fallen on deaf ears; I know that her dad and me will be the caretakers.  Your word of caution is duly noted....I remember the "puppy days" from when I was a kid.  My game plan is to take a week of PTO (Puppy FMLA?) to begin laying a foundation -- and so I can handle the first few nights of yelping.

Thanks for the input!

September 13, 2008 5:31 PM

Tales of a Square Peg   

If you're over a certain age, the title of this post probably took you back to the 1970's Norman

September 22, 2008 8:29 AM

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